Toby Jacob Henderson

Toby Jacob Henderson, a beloved son, brother, husband, father, and friend, passed away unexpectedly on January 2 , 2025, at the age of 46 in Blue Springs, Missouri. Born on December 3, 1978, in Independence, Missouri, Toby was a gentle giant whose big personality and witty charm lit up every room he entered. He was truly the life of the party, known for his kindness and ability to make everyone around him feel special.

Toby graduated from Fort Osage High School where he was granted the nickname “Truck” that has stayed with him to this day. His love for baseball led him to a State championship, a memory he talked about all the time. Toby's proudest accomplishments were his children, who brought joy and inspiration to his life daily. His favorite thing was being a dad and uncle. He loved kids and they just gravitated to him. 

Toby had a passion for various hobbies and interests that reflected his zest for life. He loved spending time at the lake, dancing, antique cars, and a good cigar. He took great pride in coaching his children’s basketball teams, guiding them with patience and enthusiasm. He and Nicole were always on the go, traveling and being adventurous, creating so many memories. Family vacations were also a highlight in his life and watching his children explore new places and experiences. 

Toby did not know a stranger. He was extremely outgoing and willing to help anyone who needed it. He cherished his relationships with friends, who were more like family. 

Toby is survived by his beloved wife, soulmate and “his person”, Nicole Henderson; son, Axton Henderson and daughters, Reghan and Raylee Martinez; father, Michael Henderson Sr.; brother, Michael Henderson Jr.; mother-in-law and father-in-law, Nancy Fitzgerald (Mike); and numerous nieces, nephews and friends. 

He is preceded in death by his mother, Donna (Copeland) Henderson, Grandma Nina, Grandma Colleen and Aunt Mary. 

Toby's legacy will be celebrated during a visitation on January 10, 2025, from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Speaks Suburban Chapel, located in Independence, Missouri. A Celebration of Life will follow on January 12, 2025, at Legacy Grill in Lee's Summit, Missouri, starting at 2:00 PM, where friends and family will gather to share stories, reminisce, and honor a great man. A toast will take place at 3pm. 

As we come together to remember Toby, we will cherish the countless memories he created, the laughter he shared, and the love he poured into the lives of those around him.