Peter John Virag

Peter John Virag, residing in Independence, MO, passed away on Wednesday, April 13, 2022. Peter began life on October 29, 1959 in sunny Honolulu, Hawaii, to John and Margaret Virag (Palancsa). The family moved to New Jersey, where they spent several years before settling down in Waynesboro, Virginia.

Peter was the eldest son of four: his younger brother Thomas, who sadly died in childhood; and his twin brothers Edward and Dean. They remained in Waynesboro, where he graduated from Waynesboro High School in 1977. There, his musical prowess shined as an all-state member of the school’s choir.

A love of flying and desire for new experiences led him to join the United States Air Force after school, where he served admirably. After returning from the Air Force, he set down roots in Richmond, Virginia. He started a full-time job with Marriott while taking classes at Virginia Commonwealth University.

It was at Marriott that he met his future wife, Cheryl, during a conference. After dating for two years, they were married in Richmond in 1987, settling down in the area as he became a dad to her three young sons Aaron, Nathan, and Bryan. Over the next four years they were joined by two more sons: Michael in 1989, and Daniel in 1992.

Peter was an active and engaged father, becoming deeply involved in coaching various sports including basketball, football, and baseball. He was a boy scout troop leader, active participant in the PTA and school functions, and the last line of defense for getting past the hard parts in video games. Juggling the differing interests and needs of five children with ages ranging from toddlers to teenagers is not easy, but he managed to strike a balance well and make sure all felt loved and considered.

Despite the full house, Peter and Cheryl supported each other in career-advancing pursuits. He wanted to start a business, and that idea came to fruition as Creative Advertising Concepts, a promotional marketing firm serving local small businesses. After converting the living room into an office / product showroom, he channeled his creative talents to helping promote his customers in unique ways. The business was successful, but he closed up shop when the family decided to pull up roots and relocate to Blue Springs, Missouri in 1998.

Moving to Missouri was an opportunity for a new start, and Peter took advantage by completing his education and earning a bachelor’s degree in information technology from DeVry University. To add more difficulty to the task, he took a full course load while working a very physically demanding job at UPS. Despite the odds, his hard work paid off and he graduated with high honors. His degree opened the doors to a new career in technology, where he had various titles at Sprint, Children’s Mercy Hospital, and Ericsson.

After 17 years, Peter and Cheryl parted ways in 2004. Despite strong ties to the east coast, he remained in the area to continue his career and serve as a dutiful father, eventually buying a home in Independence. The house was not his ideal location, but served as a way to provide his children with an in-state place of residence and to be close by while they went through college.

Later in life, Peter met his life partner Natalie. The connection was immediate and continued to develop despite circumstances that kept them traveling and physically separated for long stretches of time. While on the road and sometimes half a country apart, they continued to bond over phone calls and made the most of the times they were together. When the traveling finally slowed, they spent as much time together as possible.

Beyond his family, Peter had many passions. Music was the metronome to his life starting from a young age, and that passion only grew deeper over time. Though he was part of school choirs growing up, his adult life was largely dominated by a love of guitar and rock & roll. He appreciated both the visceral feelings of listening to live music, and the artistry and technique that went into production. Some of his favorites included Eddie Van Halen, Joe Satriani, and Joe Bonamassa (to name just a select few). Music served a constant source of delight and inspiration in his life.

Coming in just behind music was his great love of sports. Whether it was Notre Dame on Saturday, the Dolphins on Sunday, the Yankees, the Lakers, UVA, or golf tournaments like the Masters, Peter loved to watch them all. After moving to the Kansas City area, he regularly attended sporting events. He was a Chiefs season ticket holder for several years, and had an annual tradition of seeing the Yankees at Kauffman with friends and family while enjoying a ballpark sheboygan. His knowledge and experience from watching sports translated well during his time coaching and, later, as a referee.

Not content just to watch sports, Peter also deeply enjoyed playing them. In particular, he loved golf. Even though various life circumstances kept him from playing for long stretches, his love for the game never wavered. Over the years he and his brothers coordinated several golf outings – including golf-a-palooza – and after his children had grown up he was able to pursue the passion more intently. It was through golfing that he met his dear friend (and championship winning partner) Phil Hanson, a relationship he would grow to treasure immeasurably.

A passion that he cultivated later in life was cooking. For many years, cooking was about making dishes like “pasta surprise” and other quick, cheap, and easy-to-prepare meals to feed a crowd with what was on hand. It was taking local culinary classes that allowed him to fully appreciate and find pleasure in the endless experimentation that goes into creating and tweaking recipes. A few of his favorite dishes to prepare were beef stroganoff, pork ribs, and his attempts to recreate his mother’s chicken paprikash. He was always a fan of a teppanyaki dinner with a good show and better food, and tasting menus (preferably with the wine pairing) were always a good option to celebrate a special occasion.

Peter is survived by his sons, Michael (Ashley) and Daniel Virag; life partner, Natalie Price; brother, Edward Virag (Sharon); sister-in-law, Mariam Virag; 3 stepsons, Aaron, Nathan, and Bryan Noble; and many nieces, nephews, and cousins. He was preceded in death by his brothers Thomas and Dean Virag, and parents John and Margaret Virag.

A visitation to honor Peter will be held on Saturday, May 14, from 1-2:00 p.m., with a celebration of life to follow immediately after at 2:00 p.m. Both events will be at Speaks Suburban Chapel, 18020 E. 39th Street, Independence, MO 64055. The celebration of life will also be live streamed via the Speaks Chapels page for those who would like to virtually attend instead.

Online condolences may be expressed to the family at www.speakschapel.com (Arrangements: Speaks Suburban Chapel 816-373-3600)